Monday, July 12, 2010

Breathing fire

What the hell is wrong with people? So my friend and former co-worker T was having trouble TTC and I thought I was there for her during her m/c and just overall as someone who can relate with IF. It's been a few months since we last saw each other but we talk via fb quite often. I've tried to get together with her and catch up but with her working we haven't been able too. Yesterday I get on Fb and right smack in front of my eyes is her sono pics. She's having a baby and never even told me. She's almost in her second tri and from her coments it doesn't seem like they have been keeping it a secret. We play wor.dswi.thfri.ends on our Iphones daily and she never once says anything. I want to be mad at her, but then I'm happy someone else has survived IF. But still this is why I say Fb is the devil.

4 comments:

  1. Oh :( That wasn't very nice of her! As lame of an excuse as it is, maybe she didn't know how to tell you thinking it might hurt you. You're right, FB is the devil!

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  2. That is strange that she didin't tell you. I wonder if she was afraid?

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  3. It sucks to find stuff out like that. And it does seem like she didn't tell you. I assume she thought it would upset you but uh.. not telling you is more upsetting!

    I have "hidden" people on Fb for that same reason.

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  4. What is wrong with her? As someone who was also dealing with IF she should know that she should have just told you and been straight forward!

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I prefer you to make mistakes in kindness than work miracles in unkindness. ~ Mother Teresa & me