I was up all last night, I'm talking ZERO sleep! I know I already have a post for today, but I've been awake now for 25 hours and counting so you might get 3-4 posts today!!?!!
WHY?
I called my mom & was telling her about that health fair on Sat and asked if she would be interested in going with me? Now, she had just asked me if I wanted to go shopping either FRIDAY or Monday. I said Monday cause I am trying to get this work done for my sister. Back to my question - with which her answer is, "oh, I'll have to see how I am feeling"(she's got a cold or some kinda bug). She has to see how she will be "feeling" on Saturday, but she was wanting to go shopping on Friday??? I don't understand why they(her & my dad) can't be more supportive of our IF? WHY???? I even told her about my RE's free IVF C giveaway's and she says, huh......Seriuosly, who says that, certainly not the mother of an infertile?!?!?!? I don't get it! If that would have been J's mom she would have been bouncing off the walls with excitement!!
I really wish I could get more support out of them....I know they don't agree with us doing IVF and that is fine, but would it really kill them to give me some support on this major part of our life?? Heck, at this point I would happily accept "fake support." I just need something.......
((hugs)) I can't say i know how you feel since my internet ladies are the only ones who knew I struggled to get pregnant.
ReplyDeleteBut i know what its like to not have support. i used to get that all the time about school with my parents.
Sorry your mom isn't so understanding of your IF. I can never fathom having a daughter/son and NOT giving them the support and understanding that they need.
ReplyDelete((sorr)) I would def. go with you if I could!
That was supposed to be ((hugs))
ReplyDeleteI'd go with you if I could. :)
ReplyDelete(Hugs) I am sorry.
ReplyDeleteMothers not wanting to deal with their daughter's IF seems to be a trend. My mom told me I was stupid for getting a lap when I did and then when we finally got pregnant she didn't even act excited!
ReplyDelete((((Hugs)))) I'm so sorry your mom isn't being supportive! Even if she doesn't agree with IVF, she should at least try to be sensitive about all the pain you're going through. SOMETHING at least. :( I hope she comes to her senses soon.
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