Monday, October 17, 2011

Trigs

We went in for our sono this morning and they told us "You're pregnant but the yolk sac is empty. It fertilized and attached but didn't develop properly. There's nothing anyone could have done. It's genetics and the most common/normal type of miscarriage." She said, "this doesn't increase our chances of future miscarriages and won't decrease our chances of a viable pregnancy. Unfortunantly, it's just something that happens."

They told us to take a couple days to decide if we want to have a d&c or let it happen naturally.

We are ok, sad but ok.
We will try again.
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17 comments:

  1. myhopefulheartMonday, October 17, 2011 1:22:00 PM

    I'm so sorry!

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  2. AnonymousMonday, October 17, 2011 1:35:00 PM

    I'm so incredibly sorry J. I don't want to give you false hope by any means, and I know this is an incredibly trying time...but please head over to misdiagnosedmisscariagedotcom as there have been many people diagnosed with blighted ovum too early. Sometimes I wish that I had given it one more or two more weeks just to make sure before I did my D&C. Like I said, I don't want to cause any drama or make you feel any other emotions besides what you are already going through, but just sharing that the website made me cheery on days I couldn't be. (((HUGS))) to you and my prayers are with you! Tanya

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  3. AnonymousMonday, October 17, 2011 1:56:00 PM

    I'm so very sorry sweetie, I know exactly what you are going through, the worst gut wrenching words to hear when you are expecting to hear a HB ((((HUGS))))) ~ Misty

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  4. AngieMonday, October 17, 2011 2:14:00 PM

    Thinking about you and sending prayers for peace. ((Hugs))

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  5. MMonday, October 17, 2011 2:22:00 PM

    I'm crying for you right now J. I'm so so very sorry for your loss. Saying prayers of comfort and peace for you. (((hugs)))

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  6. AnonymousMonday, October 17, 2011 2:27:00 PM

    I am so very sorry to hear this news. I'm thinking and praying for your family. (((hugs))) Emily

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  7. AnonymousMonday, October 17, 2011 2:59:00 PM

    That sucks J. I had 2 blighted ovums. It's so devestating. Big hugs to you.

    E

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  8. katieMonday, October 17, 2011 3:43:00 PM

    I am so sorry J. I am just heartbroken for you. I kept checking back this morning to see how your appointment went. (((HUGS)))

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  9. AllisonMonday, October 17, 2011 4:57:00 PM

    Oh hon.. I am devastated for you. Sending comforting hugs...

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  10. CherylMonday, October 17, 2011 5:37:00 PM

    I'm so so sorry. :-(

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  11. ~*JaYmE*~Monday, October 17, 2011 6:49:00 PM

    I am so sorry J. My heart breaks for you. This just isn't fair. I wish there was something I could say or do. Sending you so much love right now. ((((((HUGS))))))

    ~Jayme~

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  12. ChristinaMonday, October 17, 2011 7:02:00 PM

    I'm so sorry J. {{HUGS}}

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  13. AnonymousMonday, October 17, 2011 7:46:00 PM

    I am so sorry!! Sending you big hugs. Sarah @ a wife and a teacher

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  14. JulieMonday, October 17, 2011 8:23:00 PM

    This sucks! I'm so sorry.

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  15. AnonymousMonday, October 17, 2011 11:13:00 PM

    I'm so sorry J! That's just not fair. (i don't want to add drama either, but are they SURE?) (((HUGS)))
    ~Steph O

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  16. AnonymousWednesday, October 19, 2011 12:01:00 PM

    Oh J, I'm so, so, SO sorry. I'm tearing up for you over here. ((Hugs)) -Kitty

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  17. ElizabethThursday, October 20, 2011 9:43:00 PM

    I am so sorry ((HUGS))

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